Divorcing Chaos

I could create an entire blog to the intricacies involved in my own divorce.  To simplify –  I filed the papers in 2012 —  Now it’s 2016  — and we haven’t moved forward.  We have however been STUCK in family court for over 50 appearances with modifications and violations.

I found this article.   I feel the need to share it with the world.    It hits the nail on the head pretty damn hard.

Getting Divorced from Chaos

 

I have three children with my husband.

They are now 8, 7, and 5.  Our oldest is autistic, has ADHD, and a developmental behavioral disorder.  The second has PTSD.  The third was too young to witness much of the unfortunate events so he is still a pretty mellow cuddle bug.    THEY ARE MY WORLD.   They are what I was made for.   I love being their mother more than anything else in the day.   Given it is more exhausting than any other job I have ever held…..  it is also the most rewarding!

If someone told me 10 years ago that this is what my life would become… I would laugh and spit my coffee out in their face.   It’s INCREDIBLE how one, two, or three years can change the path of life so dramatically.